Road
trips can be so invigorating, so full of discovery, and at times stressful. But
even with unexpected and sometimes unwelcomed stress, I think most of us would
agree that “the unexpected” actually heightened our memory and, in retrospect became
key to the unique experience of a particular trip. In my mind, road trips are
multi-day adventures. My most memorable road trip was one I took by myself. I
planned for it to be 7 or 8 days long, but due to weakened health I cut it down
to 5 days. The main intent was a photo excursion. I came back with over 2,000
photos that took me weeks to go through and pick my favorites.
Even
though the main intent was photography, in retrospect, I realized that the
whole experience of being in different surroundings, traveling, having time to
think without others around me, and all the little choices I made contributed
to the whole trip. For instance, one constant annoyance was trying to outwit
the fog – to be in areas where the fog wasn’t. That resulted in drastic changes
to my original itinerary. Originally I planned for just one progressive trip up
the coast into Oregon (from California), and then back again. However, checking
the weather app on my phone (and actually going outside), I realized I needed
to make adjustments. That meant having to make multiple back and forth trips
between points in California and points in Oregon. But wait, there’s more! Both
California and Oregon had their respective road crews doing repairs. This
brought traffic to a stop for up to 30 minutes at a time. So now, useless
waiting was interrupting my travels. Surprisingly, finding gas stations wasn’t
as hard as I expected and at one point one station happened to be next store to
an auto parts store. I had somehow lost a lug nut while driving and happily,
the store had just what I needed. Finding inexpensive (but not shoddy)
accommodations was also a little bit of a challenge. Having a smart phone made
it easier than in decades past when I took my young family on trips.
Having
to take time out of photography to physically check out the motels was actually
a nice diversion. And, as I always do, I made notes on the places I found, even
ones I didn’t stay in, in case I was able to make the trip again someday.
(Sadly, that “someday” never came.) But all these disappointments were offset
by the personal challenges I made for myself in photography. For example, I
wanted to catch some shots, maybe even a video, of elk bucking each other. I
did indeed find such and it has been a highlight in my memory to this day. Then
there was the challenge of doing night shots. I have a Canon 7D (released in
2009) that does fairly well, but still “noise” is common to all digital
sensors. So I decided to make an HDR image series and have
one of them be a totally black picture taken quickly. This was used to overlay
the other images to reduce the noise. Another personal challenge was to create
several panoramas. One particular image I’m very pleased with was a combination of 32 shots. It
was taken on the old highway (1), down the center of the road, with huge trees
on both sides. I wanted to capture all that glory so I did 4-tiers of 8
pictures each.
But I
really didn’t intend to get into such depth of this trip. I merely wanted to
illustrate that most memorable trips are ones that go beyond our planned
itineraries. The reason I mention that, is a comment a friend made recently
that the journey of our life is like a long road trip. There will be super
memorable experiences along with unexpected disappointments. As long as God is
in our lives, as long as our singularly most important goal is serving God, all
the other twists and turns our lives can take actually turn out to make us the
unique person we are. Although at the time we may bellyache about certain
unexpected situations, in the years to come, if they didn’t break us
emotionally, they actually made us much stronger. I find that to be very true
in my life. I’ve had four major upsets in my life, but I refused to allow them
to break me. Yes, they were discouraging, and yes, even making me bitterly
angry at times, but when I finally “got over myself” (my pride), I grew from
it. Today, there are some that come to me, knowing what I’ve been through,
asking for help in dealing with their own situation. Really, all they are looking
for is the encouragement that they too can cope. And it dawns on me that if I
hadn’t gone through my personal trials, I’d have nothing of substance to offer
these friends.
So I
wholeheartedly encourage not allowing yourself to be crushed when bad things
happen. They are all part of the road trip of your life. Although heartbreaking
now, in years, maybe even decades to come, those experiences will become an
invaluable source of character building for you and perhaps even encouragement
for others. Just as I never lost focus on my goal of enjoying photography in
spite of setbacks, a loyal servant of God can and should keep their focus on maintaining
a good relationship with their “heavenly Father.”